Monday, February 11, 2008

The Squeeze of the Grave

Today I went for an MRI (Magnetic Resonance Imaging). After years of ruling out various conditions, I was diagnosed with MS. But now I have a new pain management doctor and he wants to do his own tests to confirm the MS diagnosis. Ahhhh, ok ... here we go again. (It took me a long time to gain a level of acceptance about my condition.)

Anyhow, if you look at the image above, you can understand how anxious an MRI can make someone feel. Even if it is an "open MRI" (sides of it are open so you can see a little bit, doesn't feel so confining), it can still be a frightening experience. After you are settled and braced up, you lie there, ready to be slid into the machine, listening to the steps of the nurse/technician as they leave the room. Then they slide you into the machine. It is inches from your face! A tight fit indeed!

While I was under there today, a thought came into my mind: I was reminded of the "squeeze of the grave".

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The squeeze of the grave occurs after the deceased Muslim hears the thumping of his companions' shoes as they walk away from his grave.

No one is spared it. Whether he be a Believer or a Disbeliever!

I haven't been able to find a lot of detailed information about the squeeze of the grave other than the following:

Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said that the torment, squeezing, and terror that happens in the grave are things by means of which sins are expiated. (Majmoo' Fataawa Ibn Taymiyah, vol. 7, p. 487-501).

In his book, Life in Al-Barzakh, Muhammad al-Jibaly states:

"No human being will be spared the squeeze of the grave. However, the following hadith indicates that it is not at the same degree of severity for all people; some of the believers are released from its grip quicker than others. Iban `Abbas (ra) said that Allah's Messenger (saw) said:

'If anyone were to escape from the squeeze of the grave, it would be Sa`d Bin Mu`ath; however, he was squeezed once and then released.' (At-Tabarani in al-Kabir; Sahih ul-Jami by al-Albani No. 5306)"

Can we be spared from excessive horror in the grave if we live our lives here in the dunya aiming to please Allah (swt) and by following Sirat al-Mustaqeem (the Straight Path)? Insha Allah, yes.

Alhamdulilah, I was grateful to have this reminder today.

May Allah (swt) spare us from excessive torment in the grave and grant us a quick squeeze/Ameen.


Unknown said...

Assalaamu alaikum.

JazakAllahukhairan, this was really beneficial.


Adventurous Ammena said...

Salam, I heard somewhere that the one who has memorised the Quran and helped people with that knowledge has a much spacious grave... I think this issue is something we should all be aware of and be ready to research. JazakAllah khair sis

Anonymous said...

Squeeze of the grave? I have never heard of this. Now I am even more afraid. I hope mine is over quickly I am allergic to pain. Thanks for the comment on my blog.

Safiyyah said...

Salaams Muslimah In Training:

From what I can tell, the squeeze is brief indeed for the Believer who has lived his life well in this world.

Insha Allah, next post I will write about the events which occur after the test in the grave.

Preview :)

(from "Life in al-Barzakh" by Muhammad al-Jibaly:

"A believer is immediately rewarded with an opening that appears from his grave to Jannah. His good deeds materialize next to him in the form of a pleasant looking man."

Now that's something to look forward to, Insha Allah!!!

Anonymous said...

Ameen to your prayer, dearest Sister :) Here is an old post on Darvish that may ease your heart:

Ya Haqq!

Anonymous said...

Assalaamu Alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuhu,

Subhan'Allah an excellent reminder! Reflecting on death and the grave is one of the best ways to improve our lives and worship. May Allah save us from the torment of the grave. ameen!

Big Sis said...

Subhanallah sister - what a wonderfully laid out blog. I never knew this and alhamdula I too shall to do more for deen in this dunya, inshallah.

Keep up this excellent information sharing!

JazakAllah Khair.

Anonymous said...

Salaam 'alaykum,

I have what some neurologists consider to be a variant of MS and was diagnosed in 2003. Insha-Allah may it be made easy for you!

I've had lots of MRIs and completely agree with you. It does remind one of the grave and the solitude we will experience there.

Thanks for sharing your experience and may Allah grant you complete health, ameen!